Soul mates forever or just a myth...

Soul mates forever or just a myth that never exists!!

I always argued to all those who told me that a successful relationship existed only when there was "compromise".

I deny and strongly disagree to this.

I believe that when you truly love someone, you would never want to compromise, because we would personally cherish doing something, that we would normally not enjoy doing. This is because it eventually gives us the joy of knowing that we made the person we love happy, simply happy!

Compromise on the other hand, is an agreement between two people who would have to make a conscientious agreement to give up something to maintain the 'deal'. The deal unfortunately ends up to be the relationship that they share... Regrettably when the process of compromise kick starts, it just doesn't get over with. The list grows and grows, but the joy of the bond is lost in the process.

Sadly we humans, no matter how evolved we call ourselves to be; don't deal with compromises as easily as we are called to do it. In simple words, we don't deal with it with a mature mind.

We keep these compromises confined to our tiny lockers and one day, when we can no longer stuff them in, we pour them out to the world. At that time, we forget to 'forgive and forget' and become a broken record that keeps repeating itself and distressing all around.

However, I wonder... I keep thinking that my argument was never worth the while. Ultimately I don't think a love like 'Notebook' is an easy find! It’s a lost treasure in the depth of the ocean!

There are many reasons quoted for relationships to not work. In an article that I once read, it stated that most often relationships never work because most people got into the relationship for the wrong reasons and then eventually lose their identity; thus, losing the crux of the relationship.

There were many more, however, ultimately it all comes to one final explanation. I feel that, we let ourselves be lost in the wrong hands and keep no choices open for us to fix a problem, as we end up compromising!

We forget to spread the vibe of positivity and become the followers of sadness and self-pity! When we compromise, we hide ourselves in the relationship as we do not have the confidence to stand up and say that this is me, and this is what I have made for myself.

To close off, I would like to tell you what I think.

I think I should not expect you to compromise on what you want or who you are, because I love you just the way you are. My love for you is simple. And I hope you feel the same about me too.

And then we can be called soul mates! We will no longer be a myth but the reality that we live to prove, that we exist!